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1/12/2013

moonlight
moonlight
Posts: 19
am i insane or just a plain attention whore for wanting my husband to use the magical words - i love u - frequently??? he prefers showing me he loves me by his actions. thats wonderful,really, but dont i also deserve to hear the words being said? hearing these words goes a long way,doesnt it? i say it to him,mostly, he just smiles,few times,he respondes - few times oo. or is marriage supposed to mean dat one has outgrown those romantics? i dont think so
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12/2/2013

mamadey
mamadey
Posts: 36
i logged in just now to complain about this exact same thing!!! I am a hopeless romantic, my husband is the opposite. According to him, "words are cheap. its better i show you i love than just saying it". And by showing, he means performing all his husbandly roles and some. Thing is, i miss those days when we used to end every call with 'I love u', when we used to just say the words for the sake of hearing it from ourselves and from each other.
These days, nothing nothing ooo. Why must it be like that???
(I have tried saying it myself whether or not he says it 1st but after a while, i began to sound needy and funny even to myself so i just stopped)
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16 days ago

Tope Pinheiro
Tope Pinheiro
Posts: 1
I am not married so I don't how you feel in that situation, but one thing I do know is that i had rather let my man show me love than tell me meaninglessly that he loves me. I have dated a guy that told me how much he loved me (which was as much times as he made me feel like I was dumb) and I have dated one that never said the words but always wanted to be with me. So it depends on what u want.
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16 days ago

stinger
stinger
Posts: 61
in as much as i agree with mamadey's husband that words are cheap, i still feel that its neccessary to say the words from time to time. Just so the couple does not fall into the 'see finish' category of married people. Showing is fantastic but saying also helps
i will suggest you keep saying it, keep saying it. One day, it will rub off on him and he will start (unconsciously) saying it too! You know how one's attitude can influence another without that one knowing it *winks*
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